you’re not obligated to be nice or polite to people who make you feel uncomfortable in any way
if someone is going out of their way to make you feel less than or a sense of discomfort you have the right to check that bitch and tell them they don’t have the right to have control over your comfort levels
you set your boundaries and standards no one else has the right to tell you what you should tolerate
Note to myself.
And everything nice.